Welcome and Important Information Topic
AnnaChristine
02/07/22
replied to Sta
Hi Stacia,
You sound as busy as I used to be when my kids were growing up. To bed at 2am and up at 5am. Something has to give and as a friend of mine finally told her kids they had to take a season off sports and that between 3pm and 3:30pm was for herself each day. They were unhappy at first, but they eventually understood. I soon followed her idea and bought myself time, but it was and is an effort to put myself first.
Even 10 minutes a day is good. 10 minutes of total quiet. My mom used to call the bathroom her office as she said it was the only place she wasn't bothered, lol
Another friend got in the car and spent 10 minutes to himself before driving home each day.
If you are creative you can recapture some of the time.
Anna
AnnaChristine
02/07/22
replied to Sta
Also saw your blog post. You are being too hard on yourself. The life you lead is a busy one and all you do from grocery shopping to cleaning the house is considered exercise which burns calories.
My dad is in his 70's and has been athletic since he was 16. I used to be hourglass figure and then raised children and all went downhill from there. You just have to adjust what you consider exercise as it all counts. Plus if you turn on calorie exercise you can get those calories back if you need them.
Everyone has different motivators. Mine here is the grade of foods and so now when I go to the store I use the app to scan and get A foods or at home before I eat. I also like the calorie budget and have noticed I can mess up a day or two, but never the calories I was intaking and still losing weight. I also use 20g protein a meal and that helps.
And women have cortisol in their bodies which is activated by stress, so be careful to monitor your stress levels and don't be too hard on yourself as it is not one day of messing up eating that is the problem it is all the time of doing it.
Anna
JanIs43
02/22/22
Hi All,
I am Janice (J/Jan). 43 F in Smyrna, GA (Atlanta metro). I have lots of reasons to be here; better health, lose weight, become more active, and better quality of life. My partner (M47) have a house and we have 2 large dogs and 3 cats. They are EVERYTHING (big pet/animal lovers)!
I have gone through several diagnostic tests over the last year and a half for a chronic fever and slightly elevated white blood cell count. I have a fantastic PCP, and team of other physicians that I work with (Gyno, Nephrologist, Infections Disease Doc, and now a team at the overall Wellness Center). I started with the Wellness Center yesterday 2/21/22 (on the referral of my PCP). I am anxious (lol - that is my way). I met with an NP yesterday afternoon; got weighed and measured then they did a body composition analyzer (so cool). They gave me a bunch of homework and have me set up to meet with different specialist at the Wellness center. Monday I have an appointment with the Psychologist and appointment with the Nutritionist. In about a month, I will meet with the Physiologist for exercise tips. Then in May (roughly 12 weeks out) I will see the NP again to see how things are going.
I am excited, nervous, anxious - any and all of the above. I also look forward to interacting with you all and giving some support. This stuff is hard.
A little extra about me; divorced about 13 years ago. No children of my own; aunt to 5 boys and 2 girls - ranging from 15 to 4. My Mom is diabetic with a below knee amputation two years ago. It has been a huge wake up call and now I am ready to start taking care of myself. That being said - I love food; especially the unhealthy stuff.
Thanks for reading - let's do this!
AnnaChristine
03/03/22
replied to JanIs43
Yeah I struggle with the bad and comfort foods as well. I noticed after removing real sugar from my diet things got a little easier in that department. I love chocolate, but the real sugar in it causes the sugar monster to wake up and then for weeks I have trouble controlling myself.
I just wrote a nice post in the 40's something group about the two methods of weight loss I tested and which one is better. I think you might really be encouraged to read what I learned. I know I am and the success I am having is amazing without losing everything I love food wise.
Anna
AnnaChristine
03/03/22
replied to JanIs43
P.S. You have really been through a lot and are on the right path for better health all around.
Hugs,
Anna
Sta
03/11/22
Ana, sorry I didn’t know you replied. And I had no idea these other posts were here!! I’ll log in later tonight and do an update.
AnnaChristine
03/19/22
No problem :-)
AnguishAnonymous
04/09/22
Hello, I'm new to the community (even though I use MND for quite a while already). Hope you're all doing well!?
Manthymoomoo
05/07/22
Hi all,
I started this week, I've been totally out of control recently, which as I am disabled anyway, has had a crippling effect on my mobility.
so here I am!
Finding the app easy, and typing in everything I eat isn't that bad. Still having some treats, but in a controlled way. I know I wont stick to a rigid diet, as I've got a lot to lose!
It has frightened me how much I put on over lockdown!!!!
I am 50, with a hubby, a 16 & 14 year old and two older stepdaughters, who I love to bits! One heavily pregnant, so need to get myself sorted.
I had breast cancer 11 years ago, with lump & breast reduction, and intensive chemo & Radiotherapy. I had a bad pain reaction to chemo, which left me barely able to walk, and was assured each year it would wear off... at year 6, they finally sent me for more tests, and was diagnosed with chronic fibromyalgia, plantar fasciitis in both feet, the start of RA, and hardly any vit D & Iron.
Not moving and being on three types of medications that cause weight gain, plus loving food of course, has put on a stone a year, and I wasn't skinny to start with.
I know I can lose weight, as I have had a few attempts, losing 2-3 stone, but always putting back on and more.
But as I can hardly stand now, its make or break time!
AnguishAnonymous
05/07/22
replied to Manthymoomoo
Welcome! We'll get you fixed in no time ;) OK, that's not true, it takes a little time. But looking at the foods you eat is already a good step in the right direction.
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